Recognition is defined as "the identification of something as having been previously seen, heard, known, etc." This stranger recognized that Noah had autism because she had experienced it in her own life. She also used the word "beautiful". Beautiful is defined as "having beauty; having qualities that give great pleasure or satisfaction to see, hear, think about, etc.; delighting the senses or mind."
When I am in public with my family, I am used to people coming up to us and stating, "You have a beautiful daughter." Hannah radiates beauty with her blue eyes, long lashes, milky perfect skin, and golden blonde hair. I have never, however, been told by a stranger that I have a beautiful family. Strangers often do not recognize that Noah has autism, and they see the behavior he exhibits instead of his gorgeous eyes and handsome smile.
I imagine this lady, though, was not talking about "surface" beauty. She was genuinely complimenting my family on how well adjusted, how patient, and how accepting of one another we are as a collective unit. There is a saying, "To know me is to love me." I believe that only those who truly KNOW autism could recognize or fully embrace it's beauty so completely that it captures their heart.
In his eleven years, Noah has captured many hearts, including those of his family, his school aide, his therapists, and many friends. The lady in line at the resort, a stranger, recognized the beauty he brings to our family and reached out to me. I am proud to be Noah's and Hannah's mom, and as a parental unit, Brian and I ROCK! Every once in a while we need that "pat on the back" and that reassurance. Her words were probably one of the biggest compliments I have ever received.
I don't know where she lives.
I don't know her name.
All I know is that her words left a big impression.
Thank you.
